Clifton Buford
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"Hey, Do You Want to Be My Friend?"

A boy at a pool asked a question I had not heard in decades. On connection, the armor we pick up as adults, and what it costs to offer yourself with no angle.
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Not Everyone Will Celebrate You, and That's Okay.

Reflection  ·  July 2026

Some wins you keep close, not out of shame but out of wisdom.

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